I am the type of person who can approach anyone. I just don’t feel shy about saying hello to a person and introducing myself. Or, in the case of the other day, complimenting a woman on an item of clothing and asking the name of the designer. Most of the time, I get a welcome response and the details.

Some women have an issue with friends copying their hairstyle or buying the same dress or necklace. If someone is copying your choices, it truly is the highest form of flattery. I revel in someone liking what I am wearing so much that they must have it. Share your details. Allow someone else to shine in something you value. Make the relationship more important than the “thing.”